Archive | August 2014

WE NEED TO STOP WHAT WE ARE DOING AND GIVE A HUG!

This has been a terrible few weeks for all of humanity. We have been struck with tragedies and cruelty and injustice. . . this has truly been the ‘dog days of summer’.

First, we heard of the suicide of Robin Williams, an icon to many of us. Some of you sitting here grew up with his humor and wit in such zany characters as Mork from Ork, making us all laugh at the impossibility of a creator from outer space. Some of us remember his role as the professor who encouraged his students to go outside the box and become authentic people. And for us Episcopalians, we remember (and wear on tee-shirts) the top ten reasons to be Episcopalian.

What you probably don’t know that is for every movie, program or event he participated in, he required that the sponsoring agency hire a certain number of homeless people as part of the crew. When other celebrities wanted private jets and expensive meals, he thought of those less fortunate.

Robin brought humor and levity to the rest of the world, but lived in a world of darkness. Mental illness robs a person of their hope and, added to a diagnosis of early Parkinson’s, Robin was so despondent that he could not see any way out of the pain but by ending his life. No matter the accolades and love he got from others, it could not get him out of the pit of depression and drug dependency. If something good has come of his death, it is the awareness by a lot of people that mental illness does not afflict ‘crazy’ people, but everyday people who seem normal.

The death of Michael Brown at the hands of the Ferguson police was a horrific tragedy. We still don’t know all the details, but there seems to be no justifiable reason for the shooting, especially a shooting of six bullets. For many in the United States, they mistakenly believe that there are no racial problems anymore; that the Civil Rights Acts of the sixties solved all that. But as the details come out, we find that there is a long history of racial discrimination in Ferguson. . . and many other cities in the United States.

Here was a young man, a ‘gentle giant’, who had his whole life ahead of him. Sure, he was walking in the street next to cars, but that action DID NOT warrant the resultant action by the police. And since that time, there have been several other young (and not so young) black men who have been mistreated by local police, some ending in the death of a father, son, brother or uncle.

To some degree, each one of us is depressed or greatly moved by the events of this month. We have sunk into a funk where there is no joy in the world, no sense of right. We, at least I am, in a malaise, where we have no initiative or drive.

We need some comfort!

    WE NEED TO STOP WHAT WE ARE DOING AND GIVE A HUG!

Hugging is one of the most comforting things you can experience. Hugs give you an emotional boost and a feeling of rejuvenation. They improve relationships, encourage us to be more present, and snap us out of funks and negative feelings. But aside from the obvious emotional benefits of hugging, there are some other benefits which are pretty amazing.

Hugs can reduce blood pressure and improve the health of your heart, reducing your chance of heart attacks and strokes.

Hugs reduce anxiety and depression, gives us a feeling of love, trust and bonding.

Hugs reduce the fear of death and increase our self-esteem. No one can hug or get a hug and not feel better about themselves or the other person.

Hugging has even be linked to increased memory due to reduction of stress.

Even hugging trees (instead of people) can reduce stress and take away pain.

    WE NEED TO STOP WHAT WE ARE DOING AND GIVE A HUG!

We need to give or get hugs EVERY SINGLE DAY!

When you are depressed or in pain or disgusted with your life, give someone a hug. If you see someone who feels sad or seems out-of-sorts, give that person a hug.

You will feel better and so will they.

We are a community, wrought with all the traits of a varied group of people. We need each other and share our lives with each other. We are the support system that keeps each one of us going. A touch or a hug can say much more to another person about how you care for them than saying it.

So, I challenge you:

    TO TURN TO YOUR NEIGHBOR

    STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING

    AND

    GIVE THEM A HUG RIGHT NOW!

Amen.

If You Want to Walk on Water, You Have to GET OUT OF THE BOAT!

Matthew 14:22-33

In The Gospel of Matthew that (I just read) we just heard, it was pointed out that the wind was very strong and the waves were very high, but Peter did not see them at first. He simply recognized his Lord and stepped out of the boat and walked on the water. Then he realized what he was actually doing and instantly he went down.

Glub! Glub!

Did Peter sink because he didn’t have enough faith as Jesus accused him when he said ‘oh ye of little faith’? I don’t think so.

The first thing I think is important to clear up is that to me “faith” or “belief” doesn’t mean belief in an expected outcome but trust in another person. Believing in Jesus does not mean believing that we’ll be “successful” (however we define that!) in whatever it is that Jesus is calling us to do. Nor does having faith IN Jesus imply blithely signing off on a list of statements ABOUT Jesus, His teachings, His examples, and His call to you. Having faith in Jesus means a willingness to follow Jesus. Faith isn’t an activity of the brain so much as of the heart. In other words, faith is about doing. A faithful person eventually gets to the point when they can say to God, “I don’t know where you’re going, but I know that wherever it is, I’d rather be drowning with you than anywhere else.” In my own life that kind of trust in Jesus comes from knowing Jesus. The kind of trust I have in Jesus has come as I’ve experienced Jesus’ generosity and mercy. That process of building confidence, of getting to know Jesus so deeply that I can trust Jesus is part of what I call the journey of faith.

When I say that faith is ‘doing’, what I mean is that I believe faith starts with action, with taking a step, with taking a risk. The best intentions in the world don’t do much without action, but taking that step, even with mixed or unclear intentions, just might give you the experience of meeting God on the road, on (or in) the sea.

So, if you want to walk on water, you have to get out of the boat. But there is a lot of risk in doing so.

Water Walkers Will Face Storms
When you are serving God, and trying to be obedient to Christ, you will have to face storms. I’m not talking about physical storms, but the storms of trials and difficulty. Even sitting here today, you may be going through a storm. And in almost every instance, it is hard to try and see God’s hand and love as you weather those storms. Maybe it’s financial problems, or problems in a relationship; you might be having family problems, or problems at your job or school. We all have storms in our lives. Anyone who tells you Christianity means smooth sailing – that life is easy or your worries disappear – doesn’t understand what the Bible teaches about serving the Lord. 2 Timothy 3:12 says,

    In fact, everyone who wants to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted.

Remember, the disciples were in a storm because they were trying to be obedient to Christ. Matthew 14:22 says:

<ol.Jesus made the disciples get into the boat and go on ahead of him to the other side.

And they did, or at least they tried to. And many hours later they had not made much progress. So remember first of all, obedient water walkers will face storms.

Water Walkers Recognize God’s Presence
Jesus wanted to be alone to pray, He sent the disciples ahead without him. To them it was no big deal – they used boats for fishing on a daily basis. But this huge storm blew in – bigger than most storms. Matthew says that the boat was “buffeted” by the waves. It was so violent that the disciples could barely keep the boat upright.

I can imagine that they wished the sides of the boat were a little higher and the wood a little thicker. Deep in the night, the storm was getting really bad. I can imagine that at that point they weren’t worried about making it to the other side – they just wanted to stay alive. The disciples were in great fear and deep distress. It is about this time that Jesus decided to come toward them.

It’s interesting – Jesus wasn’t in a boat and the disciples didn’t recognize him. It’s also interesting that being boat-less didn’t seem to slow Jesus down at all. The disciples were convinced he was a ghost, so they were terrified and cried out in fear. But Matthew wants us to know that sometimes it is only with the eyes of faith that we can fully recognize when Jesus is around.

Often during our own lives we are tormented by waves of disappointment and doubt. And we are no better at recognizing his presence than the disciples were.

What was Jesus up to, walking around on the lake in the middle of a stormy night? He saw the disciples straining at the oars because the wind was against them. Yet when Jesus came to the disciples on the water intending “to pass them by,” he was not just doing a neat magic trick. He was revealing his divine presence and power.

It is interesting that the disciples took the boat out in the first place at Jesus’ command. They would have to learn, as we all do, that obedience is no guarantee of being spared adversity. But as the storm gained their full attention, Jesus decided that it was time for the disciples to get to know a little bit more about the one who was really piloting this storm.

Basically, Jesus wanted them to be able to also trust him in the storms. The problem was “they just didn’t get it.” God was visiting them while walking on the water but they couldn’t see it. Jesus often comes when least expected – in the middle of a storm. I believe that extreme stress is a frequent meeting place with God. These are those divinely appointed defining moments that come into all of our lives. And, if you’re not looking for him, if you cannot acknowledge He can be there in the storm, you might just miss him.

Twelve disciples sat in the boat; we don’t know how the other eleven responded to that voice. Were they confused? Did they respond with wonder? Disbelief? Or perhaps a little of each! But one of them, Peter, was about to become a water walker. He recognized that God was present – even in the most unlikely place. He realized that this was an extraordinary opportunity for spiritual adventure and growth. So he got an idea. He decided to do something religious.

Water Walkers Know the Difference Between Faith and Foolishness (Matthew 14:28)
Peter blurted out to Jesus, “if it is you, command me to come to you on the water.” Why doesn’t Peter just plunge into the water? This is not just a story about risk taking; it is primarily a story about obedience. That means we will have to determine an authentic call from God and what might simply be a foolish impulse on our part. Courage alone is not enough; it must be accompanied by wisdom and discernment. Matthew is not just glorifying risk-taking. This is not a story about extreme sports. It’s about extreme discipleship! This means that before Peter gets out of the boat – he had better make sure Jesus thinks it’s good idea. So he asks for clarity,

    “if it is you, command me…”

I don’t know, but in that darkness Jesus might have smiled. Maybe he laughed because one person got it. Peter had some inkling of the risk he was taking.

Not only that, Peter had enough faith to believe that he too could share this great adventure with the Savior of mankind. He decided he wanted to be part of history’s original most famous and important “command me.”

Water walkers will face storms. Water walkers recognize God’s presence. Water walkers acknowledge the difference between faith and foolishness.

Water Walkers Get Out Of The Boat (Matthew 14:29)
Put yourself in this story; picture in your mind how violent the storm must have been. It was strong enough to keep seasoned professionals struggling just to avoid being capsized. Imagine the size of the waves, the strength of the wind, the darkness of this night. These were the conditions under which Peter was going to get out of the boat. It would be tough enough to try to walk on water when the water is calm, the sun is bright, and the air is still. Imagine trying to do it when the waves are crashing, the wind is at gale force, it’s pitch black and you are terrified!

Put yourself in Peter’s place for a moment. You have a sudden insight into what Jesus is doing. Jesus is inviting you to go on the adventure of your life. But at the same time, you’re scared to death. What would you choose – the water or the boat? The boat is safe, more secure, and certainly more comfortable. The water is rough and in the water the waves are high. The wind is strong. There’s a storm out there. And if you get out of the boat – whatever your boat happens to be – there’s a good chance you might sink! But if you don’t get out of the boat there’s a guaranteed certainty that you will never walk on the water. If you want to walk on water –you’ve got to get out of the boat. I believe there is something – someone – inside us who tells us there is more to life than sitting in the boat.

You and I were made for something more than merely avoiding failure. There’s something inside us that wants to walk on the water – to leave the comfort of routine existence and abandon ourselves to the higher adventure of following God. So let me ask you a very important question: what’s your boat?

    • your boat is whatever represents safety and security to you apart from God himself;

    • your boat is whatever you are tempted to cling to, especially when life gets a little stormy;

    • your boat is whatever keeps you so comfortable that you don’t want to give it up even if it’s keeping you from joining Jesus in a miraculous and transforming journey;

    • your boat is whatever pulls you away from the high adventure of extreme discipleship.

Do you want to know what your boat is?

Your fear will tell you. Just ask yourself this: what is it that most produces fear in me – especially when you think of leaving it behind and stepping out in faith?

    Relationships?
    Successes?
    Failures?
    Being seen as a fool?
    Losing dignity?
    Being seen as a fanatic?
    Being wrong?

What area(s) of your life are you shrinking back from fully and courageously trusting God? Fear will tell you what your boat is. Leaving it may be the hardest thing you ever do. But if you want to walk on the water, you’ve got to get out of the boat!

Remember: Water walkers will face storms; water walkers recognize God’s presence; water walkers know the difference between faith and foolishness; water walkers get out of the boat.

Water Walkers Face Their Fears To Grow
So Peter goes to the side of the boat. The other disciples are watching closely. They had seen Peter shoot off his mouth before – in fact, he did it a lot. They wonder how far he will take this thing. One can imagine he put one foot over the side, carefully gripping the edge of the boat. Then he put the other foot; he’s holding on for dear life.

For a while it’s as if Peter and Jesus are present on the water. Peter is beaming with delight. Jesus is thrilled with his student – like master, like disciple. Then it happens – Peter ”saw the wind.” Reality set in, and Peter surely asked himself, “what was I thinking?” He realized he was standing on the water in the middle of a storm with no boat beneath him – and he’s terrified!

Now, nothing had really changed. The storm shouldn’t have been a surprise – it had been there the whole time. What really had taken place was that Peter’s focus had shifted from Jesus to the storm. We are all the same. We start something filled with hope, then reality sets in. Setbacks. Opposition. Unexpected obstacles. You see the wind. It should be expected. The world’s a pretty stormy place. But somehow trouble still has the power to catch us by surprise. Because of the wind – some people decide to never leave the boat. If you get out of the boat, you will face the wind and the storms out there. But you should know there is no guarantee that life in the boat is going to be any safer. It is limited, finite.

Peter faced a choice, as we all do. The choice to follow Jesus – the choice to grow – is the choice to overcome fear. You’ve got to get out of the boat a little every day! Here’s a deep truth about water walking: the fear will never go away. The fear will never go away. Why? Because each time you want to grow, it will involve going into new territory, taking on new challenges. And each time you do that, you will experience fear again. As you see in this story… you will always have choices…

    risk vs. security
    exhilaration vs. comfort.

Yet, every time you get out of the boat, you become a little more likely to get out the next time. It’s not that the fear goes away, but that you get used to dealing with fear. And each time fear loses its power to destroy you. On the other hand, every time you resist that voice, every time you choose to stay in the boat rather than heed its call, the voice gets a little quieter and further away.

Then, at last you don’t hear its call at all.

Water Walkers Master Failure Management
As a result of seeing the wind and giving in to fear, Peter began to sink into the water. So here is the question: Did Peter fail? Before I offer you an answer let me make an observation about failure. Failure is not an event, but rather a judgment about an event. Failure is not something that happens to us, or a label we attach to things. It is a way we think about outcomes.

Did you know that:

    • Before Jonas Salk developed a vaccine for polio that finally worked, he tried 200 unsuccessful times.

    • When Thomas Edison was branded a failure in his attempts to create a light bulb he said “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”

    • Before James Dyson invented the perfect vacuum cleaner he went through 5,127 prototypes.

So… did Peter fail? Probably. He took his eyes off the Lord and sank. But I think there were eleven greater failures sitting in the boat. At least Peter got out of the water and walked toward Jesus – and even for a short while he DID walk on the water.

Why did Peter not fail?

Because he got out of the boat. The saddest failure is to never get out of the boat! Water walkers see failure as an opportunity to grow. As soon as Peter asks for help, Jesus was there.

    “Lord… save me.”

Jesus helped him physically by pulling him from the water. But he also helped Peter grow by pinpointing the problem:

    “You of little faith, why did you doubt?”

I don’t think Jesus was being harsh or critical here. Jesus made this comment to Peter while they are still out on the water alone. Jesus didn’t embarrass him in front of his fellow disciples. The problem was clear: whether Peter sank into or walked on the water depended on whether he focused on the storm or on Jesus.

It was Peter’s willingness to risk failure that helped him to grow. Failure is an indispensable, irreplaceable part of learning and growth. Failure doesn’t shape you; the way you respond to failure shapes you.

Where did we get to?

    • Water walkers will face storms.

    • Water walkers recognize God’s presence.

    • Water walkers discern between faith and foolishness

    • Water walkers get out of the boat

    • Water walkers face their fears to grow

    • Water walkers learn to master failure

Jesus is still looking for people who will get out of the boat. So, why should you risk it?

    • it is the only way to real growth

    • it is the way true faith develops

    • it is part of discovering and obeying your calling

I believe that there are many good reasons to get out of the boat. But there is one that stands above them all. . .

    the water is where Jesus is.

The water may be dark, wet, and dangerous. But Jesus is not in the boat. The main reason Peter got out of the boat is because he wanted to be where Jesus was. Matthew keeps referring to this reality. Peter’s request is,

    “Lord, if it’s you, command me to come to you.” Then Peter got out of the boat “and came toward Jesus.” (Matthew 14:28)

Because Peter did this – both he and his friends came to a deeper understanding of their master than ever before.

So, how about you? When’s the last time you got out of the boat?

God “passes us by” and shakes up everything. The call to get out of the boat involves discomfort, often disappointment, often failure, generally fear and sometimes suffering. It is always a call with a task too big for us. But there is no other way to grow closer to God!

So where are you this morning?

    • Huddled in the boat with a life jacket and your seat belt on?

    • One leg in, one leg out?

    • Out of the boat , but fearful because the wind looks pretty bad?

    • Looking into the eyes of Jesus and walking on water?

Let us pray.

Lord Jesus, help me to walk with you. Help me to recognize whatever it is that which keeps me from coming to you, keeps me from trusting you, keeps me from obeying you. Help me to face whatever it is that I am afraid of and to trust you to save me. Amen
 
 
Delivered at Trinity Episcopal Church On Capitol Square, Columbus, OH